Mates 101

Building a Strong Relationship Foundation

happy_coupleWe all know, houses are built on a strong foundation, with a structure built on top of it. Buildings stand tall and maintain structure through the stress of natural events of mother earth. Without the foundation, a house will fall, lose it shape, and basically be useless. This concept is the same for couples. Relationships need a strong foundation while going through the natural stressors, such as financial tension, disagreements, external pressures, etc. Foundations need to be strong, without cracks, and with a solid and secure area. Take a look at your relationship foundation. Is your structure built on a solid connection, or is it uneven, cracking, and falling apart? Focus on rebuilding your relationship through connection, trust, and communication.

Here are a few things that can help build a strong foundation in your relationship:

Tighten up the connection: House structures aren’t held together through tape, nor should a relationship. Tighten up the connection through showing your partner that you are there, connecting, hugging, kissing, and showing affection. Greet your partner with a kiss, leave with hug, say hi with a touch, etc.

Strengthen the Trust: Show your partner that you are trustworthy and that you also are willing to trust. You might not be able to change your partner, but you can influence them by your behavior. Take a look at the message you send to your partner about how much you trust them, along with your behaviors being trustworthy.

Communicate your side: Don’t just talk, communicate. Talking gets us no-where. But communicating is about letting your partner see the underlying stuff, the real stuff. Why not step out and show your partner what is really going on. Learn to detect your reactions and slow them down. Get to know what you feel, and then share it with your partner in a more productive way.

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Loving russian women

Russian women are not different from other women in this world but certainly are more beautiful. So beautiful, that people feel like going to Russia and to get married to a Russian girl. There are many websites online which gives the information on single young Russian girls.

One of the beautiful aspects of these Russian girls is their legs. Legs are like their real charm along with their charming white blondish look. When these gorgeous legs are supported with high heels is when a deadly combination is formed. Its not because it makes them beautiful is why they wear heels. It is because they are kind of born with high heels on. I can’t remember a Russian beauty without heels or those fur shoes. It is really an amazing scene when we get to look at it up close.

Their feminine look is a pleasure to watch for young guys. But their look is not the only thing that they have. They are believed to be stronger sex among Russians. It is because of many factors. They are emotionally and psychologically stronger than men in the environment which is full of hardships. They have more power to bear hardships as compared to the Russian men and hence are considered as stronger sex in the country. An example of this is that women win most of the medals in sport activities for the country than males. Not only in sports but in other sections like libraries, schools, offices too are dominated by females.

An example that I found proves their strength and endurance to me. There was a woman about 21 years old who got married to a guy 8 years older than her and had 3 kids. Within a span of four months, her family died due to a disease. First her younger kid, then her husband followed by two other children. The situation of the woman is unthinkable as she had to bury her own family in a place where she herself was not from and she was herself too young.

Another point in their strength is their gentleness. No matter what the situation is like and how bad it might be, they never loose their gentle and polite way of talking and behavior. This is another of their strength as people loose their calm and mind when a tense situation arises. This is a great advantage in a world like this.

But what is not good is the way they dress up. They wear fewer clothes. Short mini skirts and gauzy blouses which exposes everything. This leads to harassment at places of work. This is what American media has constantly been at and have tagged Russian women’s deficiency of female authorization.

So despite of their feminine looks and strength, there is another side to them which is hidden. Russian ladies are married at a very young age and incidents can happen which is difficult to bear. But we must appreciate their beauty and god given feminist.

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Asian women for marriage

Asian women as the name suggests are form Asian region. But its use varies by the region and country where particular women belong to. Women which are from the region of East Asia and south Asia are called Asian women in some countries while in other countries women from Central Asia are called Asian women.

Apart from the above facts, another important fact about Philippine women is that they are indeed beautiful. Every thing in their body is in proportion. People find them more interesting and beautiful when they wear exposing clothes. They are generally short in height and their eyes are narrow at the corners where the eyes get finished. They are skinny which adds to their beauty and they are size 4 or even less. Their lips are rich and adds suit their faces. The bones of their cheeks are high and are petite. Their skin color is more like honey which is dark and their eyes can be compared to almond which might be kept in such a way that the small portion is outwards. Another thing which most of the men can’t ignore is the length and the shininess of the hair. Asian girls have long hair which is attractive for many men. Despite all this they are kind of sweet.

In early times, Asian women were surely respected. Some of them were even considered as goddess. Their rights were conserved and were given special attention. Once a man even touches a woman would lead to early marriage of that woman. It doesn’t matter whether they were touched with affection or by co incidence.

Now it is a totally different scenario. Women are disrespected by most of the men out there. Their rights are violated many times and very fewer reports are lodged at the police station concerning this. Asian women are aware that they are being used but due to lack of knowledge about their rights, they are unable to take action. Sometimes a misconception arises among hem that no one would listen to them as they are women and even if some one does, nothing will be done regarding this. Many of the cases that are reported are about rapes with Asian teenagers and assault on the wives. Prostitution of Asian women is known by many since many cases have arisen in the past regarding this issue.

Though many questions are put up everyday like why and how are these incidents occurring but no one has any answer to it. Government is doing in direction of solving this problem or not is difficult to tell after suck incidents occurs. Or is it because of their poverty that prostitution is the only way to feed their family and many children. Women knowing all this are finally acting on there own. They are becoming more and more competitive in every section of the society that they enter. Unlike before, they are becoming more and more aware of their rights from the media like the newspaper, television, etc.

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Saying I Love You Online

newlove-11Love is always in the air during the festive season. The cool weather, warm fireplace lit rooms, unlimited amounts of wine, laughter at the dinner table all raise one’s spirits and add to happiness. All this joy and laughter definitely does wonders for one’s confidence levels and makes it easier to confess about matters of the heart no matter what the physical distance. The virtual world also comes to aid adding a few ways to bolster one’s courage to confess his or her feelings.

Sometimes saying how you feel about someone you love immensely is the hardest thing one can do, but sending romantic ecards and virtual flowers are a great place to start. Whether it is Valentine’s Day or Christmas there is always that perfectly worded e-card which opens the flood gates of all that pent up emotion.

If an e-card is too brief and doesn’t do justice, sharing romantic love stories, letters or poems can convey the intended message with a lot more gusto and passion.

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Nine Dating Tips to Maintain a Sweet Relationship

In a relationship, most quarrels and disputes arise because of things which actually has no importance. The following dating tips are recommended to you to maintain a sweet relationship:

dating_sweet1. Realistic
Do not try to change your partner into someone else. Love your partner for what they are and learn more of the value of your partner that does not necessarily look visual.

2. Always discuss all things
Do not make assumptions about your partner’s feelings. Learn to express yourself so that your partner understands you are angry, disappointed or pleased! If you stop to talk to each other, it means that your relationship is in danger …

3. Do activities together
Make a schedule so that you do something together. Doing sports or involve yourself in activities with nature, something that makes you both enjoy it. It could be a way to watch DCDs, or holding hands along the mall that you visit. Enjoy the art show? Why not!

4. Mutual understanding
In a relationship there is a mutual giving and receiving, then you learn to be a part of him.

5. Show your love
Buy flowers, candy or perfume or something that signifies your love for your spouse, even though you’ve been married for five years. Make the little things that could remind someone that there is attention to him and of course continue to love him/her.

6. Mutual respect
Stop making jokes about haircuts or anything that makes you laugh at your partner. Love is how to respect your partner’s feelings and sensitive all the time.

7. Bury the bad past
Stop bringing past. No one wants to be reminded of something bad.

8. Stick with your commitment
If you leave your spouse at all times, delaying its promise to cancel the meeting and then it’s time you need to talk! If you have a relationship with someone, then make your partner as a priority and where possible not to disappoint. Do not make promises you do not keep. If your partner feel that you are not so important to him, be prepared to lose.

9. Be honest!
Honesty does not mean showing frowning face when you hate your partner’s appearance. In translating? honest?, means we must express our feelings clearly, not by way of grumbling. When you are upset, say, and when you’re angry, tell him/her without having to shout angrily. Love is also about honesty, and a relationship whithout honesty is not appropriate in love.

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Bienvenidos a ETC Colegio Internacional

ETC es un colegio especializado en la enseñanza de la lengua Inglesa en general y específica por ejemplo, Inglés a nivel Empresarial, Turismo, Medicina, etc. ETC se establece en el ano 1989. Este colegio tiene el prestigioso reconocimiento del British Council y English UK.

Nuestros cursos de Inglés específico están diseñados:

* A personas que necesitan mejorar sus habilidades lingüísticas a nivel ejecutivo.
* A graduados, especialistas, técnicos y profesionales que desean perfeccionar su Inglés.
* A profesionales con interés en mejorar sus vocaciones en cursos de Empresariales, Turismo y Agencia de Viajes.

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Tantric Massage in London

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We specialise in Tantric Massage and the Art of Tantric Healing.
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At the London Tantric Temple, We offer a wide range of Tantric Treatments along with Tantric Massage.

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Sensual Tantric Massage: A full body Naturist massage, slow, intimate and very sensual using scented or non scented oils to help glide around the body and sensually stimulating all areas of the body from top to tail.

Healing Tantric Massage: A full body Naturist Swedish massage ending in Chakra balancing, the focus on harmonizing and balancing the bodies natural energies.

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of lovers & friends


you see, i never meant to feel like this
it wasnt planned til you became my first kiss
i hated you for so long, i thought you were an ass
but baby you talked to me, got to know me
and now this gut feeling wont pass
youre the unrequited love as they say
months passed, march, april may
im still in love.
-P

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and so i wonder.


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He said he would be there for me,
He said he would never leave me,
No one knows how i feel deep inside,
No one was there when it happened in real life,
Some say I left for another guy,
Some say I left because I’ve had enough,
No…
I left because everything became different,
Him and i became different,
Our love is like a shattered glass now,
Our love could never grow again,
He moved on,
I couldn’t,
He came back,
I came back,
He moved on,
I moved on..
I’m tired of crying for him,
Because I know he won’t cry for me,
He blames me for everything,
He doesn’t blame himself,
I keep it inside,
I carry with me all the burden too,
I don’t want to look back anymore,
For I Don’t want to cry over him again,
I don’t want to fight back for him,
Because I know he won’t hear me,
And he chooses to not hear me,
I moved on..
It’s all been done,
I’m someone new now,
So don’t come looking for me now, (well,to tell you the truth,he never did. never tried)
Live a life full of smiles and happiness,
Go out without telling anyone about it and feel blessed,
I thanked the lord for changing me into someone new,
Something worthwhile and got rid of all my blues,
He can keep everything,
I can keep the memories,
I ask for nothing,
Everything is done.

I did this when i was young. there’s something about this that i could never forget of what happened. i hope you are reading this Keem Musdi. to know how much pain you’ve caused me and i to you. you and i both know the truth. there’s no easy way to say sorry but to rather lie to ourselves and build up those hatred inside of the two of us.

And so i wonder if you do still think about me.
And so i wonder if you do still love me inside somewhere.
And so i wonder if there will ever be another chance for us to tie the knot and never let go.
And so i wonder.
And so i wonder.

I never got the chance to say thank you. I know I’ll never be given the chance to apologize eventhough i’ve apologized millions of times (i assure you i can apologize a million more just for you. let me apologize. I don’t want to carry this burden anymore). i don’t think i’ll ever have the chance to do so. wherever you are. i hope sooner or later maybe someday,everything will be okay again.

- Fee.W

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